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cairongfu_2008 发表于 2008-5-5 15:10

懂英语的进来聊聊。Keeping eye contact

Keeping eye contact when you are having a conversation is very important.Eye contact shows that you are paying attention and listening closely to what the other person is saying.
      If your eyes are wondering around the room as a person is talking to you .It gives the impression thatyou are uninterested in what he/she has to say.

now.everybody ,can you talk something about this topic?

kkp 发表于 2008-5-5 15:20

not complicated  ,but too long..........

蓝宇飞扬 发表于 2008-5-5 16:00

不懂英语。。眼睛是心灵窗户。。

◆нυá◆ 发表于 2008-5-5 16:43

understand   a litter[em105]

HiroNakamura 发表于 2008-5-6 23:17

目光接触啦...
这里说的是,在和别人说话的时候,最好是保持目光的接触,不要别人在和你说话的时候,而你的眼珠子却在溜来溜去的看其它东西.这样会给别人留下不好的印象.
So,I agree with this.Keeping eye contact is also a good manner when u talking with others..It also show you politeness.....

方向标 发表于 2008-5-7 00:04

眼神交流很重要!!!!!

cairongfu_2008 发表于 2008-5-8 09:56

我觉得如果你看着对方的眼睛也容易造成紧张,所以最好看着对方的鼻子,哈哈。

erica55 发表于 2008-5-8 11:20

Eye contact is one of body language and in different countries it means differently and sometimes maybe a world of difference.Commonly, keeping eye contact is show of courtesy and through eye you can learn a lot,especially,when you don't want to get cheated.

xujingyuwyf 发表于 2008-5-13 16:35

i can't  express  any comment even if i use chinese.

林小楽 发表于 2008-5-14 10:55

[em166] eye contact shows your politeness,i knew this too well .but i am always the one who look here n there but the one whom i talk to's eyes..maybe it's just because eyes' show too much of your real sensation,happy,fear,worrying.or so. i need to change myself. yes.keep eye contacting when i talk to other guys next time..[em92]

HiroNakamura 发表于 2008-5-14 13:10

"i need to change myself. yes.keep eye contacting when i talk to other guys next time"
it's not eye contact...it's "放电"..
sorry..just a kidding...!

林小楽 发表于 2008-5-14 22:47

er...[em131]  nooooo
coz sometimes some guys' gaze make u feel uneasy.then the best way to avoid such embarrassment' to avoid eye contact.[em100]

HiroNakamura 发表于 2008-5-15 10:04

Of course,,some kind of eye contact,in my opinion,also a good way to capture guy's or gal's heart...maybe you can try this way next time...

vvshadow 发表于 2008-5-15 17:57

Eyes contact makes me feel very nervous[em134]

冰豆花 发表于 2008-5-17 23:57

eye contact shows respect the people who talk to you,  it shows your confidence.

爱鱼小超人 发表于 2008-6-10 15:08

[quote]原帖由 [i]当我遇上你[/i] 于 2008-5-15 10:04 发表 [url=http://www.xmpig.com/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=2150066&ptid=196593][img]http://www.xmpig.com/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]
Of course,,some kind of eye contact,in my opinion,also a good way to capture guy's or gal's heart...maybe you can try this way next time... [/quote]

wom....i do not think so.....eye contact is just the basic for capture guy's or gal's heart, but it's not enough except u are falling in love at first sight...

but i do think it can make u feel more confident

阿尔卑斯糖 发表于 2008-6-17 15:46

Foreigners do not agree with that ?!
[em99] [em99]

iqverylow 发表于 2008-6-17 16:27

[em168] I’ve nothing to say about this~~
But you could talk about something like japanese, pet dog and so on with me~

饼干人 发表于 2008-6-19 11:47

Eyes contact is very important in the communiacation. But you should have some skills on it, such as how long, how often etc.

[[i] 本帖最后由 饼干人 于 2008-6-19 11:54 编辑 [/i]]

紫凝 发表于 2008-6-20 19:28

I agree with you

eye contact is very important
it shows you respect others

cairongfu_2008 发表于 2008-9-27 08:49

[quote]原帖由 [i]vvshadow[/i] 于 2008-5-15 17:57 发表 [url=http://www.xmpig.com/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=2154683&ptid=196593][img]http://www.xmpig.com/images/common/back.gif[/img][/url]
Eyes contact makes me feel very nervous[em134] [/quote]
Eyes contact makes you feel very nervous ,the best way is watching his or her nose ,
i think it will avoid nervous,
do you agree me?

水栖之花 发表于 2008-9-28 14:39

Eye contact is necessary during a conversation.  It needs to at appropriate moments and with appropriate intensity.  It should not be a stare which intimidates.

raycy 发表于 2008-9-29 20:40

the amount of appropriate eye contact  varies accroding to the country.
for example,British practice demands eye contact.
and appropriate eye contact is also important socially in China.

心乱如麻 发表于 2008-9-30 03:01

we can not keep eye contact here[em159]

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